June 18, 2025

June 17, 1971: “I’ve Never Had a Questionable Day Since I Married You”

June 17, 1971: “I’ve Never Had a Questionable Day Since I Married You”

Send us a text In this letter from June 17, 1971, my dad — Captain Dick Allgood — writes to my mom, Sarah, from Vietnam. She’s at Lackland Air Force Base in San Antonio, pregnant with me. He’s halfway around the world, but he’s still thinking about everything — whether her special delivery letter got mailed, what her coworkers are like, how she’s feeling, and how their friends are doing. He even tells her about a book he picked up that made him think of one of her favorite phrases: “slam-ba...

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In this letter from June 17, 1971, my dad — Captain Dick Allgood — writes to my mom, Sarah, from Vietnam.


She’s at Lackland Air Force Base in San Antonio, pregnant with me. He’s halfway around the world, but he’s still thinking about everything — whether her special delivery letter got mailed, what her coworkers are like, how she’s feeling, and how their friends are doing. He even tells her about a book he picked up that made him think of one of her favorite phrases: “slam-bam thank you ma’am.”


But as always, it’s the quiet lines that hit the hardest.


“Do you know that I have never had a questionable day in my life since I married you?”


Even now, decades later, that line makes me stop.


I found these letters after both of my parents were gone. And reading them now — as their daughter — I’m learning just how deep their connection was, and how much they leaned on that love to get through the distance, the war, and the waiting.


Thank you for listening, and for helping me carry their story forward.


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